Saturday, December 12, 2015

In Memorium


Eric, Jane and Leroy, playing cribbage.

Ben, Nathan and Hope
Pictures are from last Christmas,  Oh how things can change...
Homage to Leroy and Hope given at their funeral, December 11.
LeRoy, Spitz.  Connie, Corinne,   Hope.  Their names which interchange regularly ring generosity.  They have always been the great providers, even to a fault.  I am a recipient of their generosity, more years of their generosity than almost anyone here
I grew up in Hope’s place.  I was the seventh child born to our mom and dad in March, 1947.  We lived on a farm near Hay, Washington.  Those of you that do not know where Hay is, it lies halfway between Riperia and Dusty.  That June, at age 16, Hope graduated from Hay High School.  She ranked in the top 3 of her class.  There were only 3 in her class.  In September,  Hope went off to PLC.  She came home and mothered me at each break, and in the years that ensued she brought home LeRoy from PLC.  Later she brought home LeRoy and Randy, Marie and Kurt.   In several of those years, LeRoy came to the farm to supplement his meager teacher pay to work the summer harvest while Randy, Marie and Kurt, and Hope stayed on the “coast”   and Hope went to summer school.

The summer of 1959 was one of those years.  Leroy had brought over Randy, Marie, and Kurt to the farm and while Leroy drove truck in the wheat fields, Dad, Mom and I took care of me age 12, Randy age 7, my brother Dwight age 5, Marie age 4, and Kurt age 2.  Hope, who had been attending summer school, arrived on August 1 and just two days later our dad died. 

Why I tell this story here is that it speaks to the Spitzers’ insight and generosity.    While they lived 300 miles away from me most of the year, they showed a keen interest in our lives and work.  I remember how Spitz and Hope would sit down with me, as a teenager, to discuss my aspirations and dreams.  In many summers Hope and Spitz brought a bunch of books for me to read.  In those days, during harvest, one would sit in the truck for 20 to 40 minutes waiting for the combine to dump its wheat into your truck.  It would take at least 3 “dumps” to fill the truck so you had a lot of down time sitting out in the vast wheat fields of eastern Washington.  We read books to fill the time.

When school started for my senior year of high school, we had a new English teacher, Mrs. Moser.  In one of the first days of class she asked us to fill out a questionnaire as to our reading experiences; books recently read.   A few days later Mrs. Moser called me up to her desk after class.  She inquired as to my list:   Of Mice and Men, To Kill a Mockingbird, Catcher in the Rye, Animal Farm, Lord of the Flies, among other now classics.  She was very interested in to how it came about that I chose to read these books.  “My sister and brother in law,” I answered.  “They encourage me to read them.”  Mrs. Moser was one of the finest teachers I had.  Her interest in fine literature and in writing is still with me today.  She wrote in my annual at the end of the year, “May your ambition be enthusiastic but less vaulting than Macbeth.” 

Ambition.  Corrine and LeRoy taught me and hundreds of others that ambition, put toward positive goals, required hard work, education, and astute application.  In order to perform at the highest level, one had to study, practice, prepare and perform.  Performance at the highest caliber is a premium that, if achieved, is very rewarding. However, the process toward one’s goal always had an element of taking care of others along the way.  Hope’s favorite song was Barbra Streisand’s “People”.  “People.  People who need people, are the luckiest people in the world.”

Often at memorial services one speaks to the accomplishments of the deceased – what one had achieved or “gotten out” of one’s life.  LeRoy and Corinne had many achievements and accolades but I think it is more fitting here to speak to what they achieved by what they have “put into” the lives of many.  They touched hundreds of lives.

In the musical Godspell, Jesus sings a song God Save the People.   Jesus is concerned that the people are consumed with anger, worry, fear, loathing and are only pursuing self interest.  Jesus sings to God, “Flowers of thy heart, oh Lord are they.  Let them not pass like weeds away.  Their heritage, a sunless day.  God save the people.”  Hope and Spitz are flowers.  They are a sunny day.  Their heritage blooms and shines all around us, throughout their community, the churches and schools they  served, their life work,  their University, and especially their family.

Thank you LeRoy, Spitz.  Thank you Connie, Corinne, Hope.  Thank you good and faithful servants.  Thank you and well done.